Is the Un-Invitation a New Wedding Trend?

Being in the wedding industry, we hear about a lot of crazy trends, but this one might just be one of the strangest. A  new trend is for couples to give un-invitations to people who aren't being invited.



Instead of working with the more traditional concept that people will know that they aren't invited by simply not getting an invite, this takes it to a new level. Couples are actively telling non-guests that their invitation wasn't lost in the mail, it just didn't exist.

In some cases, couples are having their wedding planner be the bearer of bad news. In others, they're actually getting special "sorry we can't invite you" cards!

This trend seems a bit strange to us, but what do you think of it? Will you be sending out un-invitations? Or will you stick with tradition and stay positive?

Whether you're sending out invitations, un-invitations, or both, we'd love to be invited to provide entertainment for your wedding. Get in touch today to find out about how we can help keep the party going!

Football-themed wedding music

Even though none of our local teams were in this year's Super Bowl, it's still possible for football fans to incorporate the sport into their weddings.



Football as a wedding theme is always a fun choice, and can be a great way to get your fiance involved in planning. Along with a tailgate-inspired menu, team colors, and even using an arena for a venue, you can also work football into your music choices.

Along with your team's fight song, you can think about stadium favorites like "We Will Rock You/We Are The Champions" and "Are You Ready For Some Football". Of course, these don't necessarily make you think of romance.

For a song that's more of a compromise between football and romance, there are plenty of songs that have been used on various shows about the sport. Flo Rida's "Good Feeling" is popular for both weddings and football games, for instance.

Whatever your team, adding a football theme to your wedding can be great entertainment. If you're looking for entertainment for your New Jersey wedding, get in touch with us today!

Create a special song for your groom

Here at Excel Entertainment we can customize the reception on your big day so that it feels just right for you and your groom.



We'll create the mood you're looking for with lighting and music and we'll even bring along a photo booth so you don't have to remember the event - you'll have it sitting right there in front of you whenever you bring out your album.

One way of really making your groom feel special at the reception is to get a song specially written for him. Or even make up the lyrics yourself (well, you'll know him better than anyone). Once you've done that and got someone to put it to music (or listen to tunes and find one that fits your lyrics) then bring it along to us and we'll happily play it on the day. His face will be a picture!

For more wedding entertainment ideas call or come and have a chat to us here in New Jersey

Top Wedding Songs for 2013

It's here! GigMasters "Top wedding songs for 2013." The lists are based on a survey of 2012 and 2013 brides and grooms, booking data, and research done with others in the wedding industry.

Top 5 First Dance Songs

1. You Are The Best Thing – Ray LaMontagne
2. A Thousand Years – Christina Perri
3. At Last – Etta James
4. Can't Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
5. I Won't Give Up – Jason Mraz

Top 10 Must Play Songs

1. Don't Stop Believing – Journey
2. Dancing in the Moonlight – King Harvest
3. Everything – Michael Bublé
4. Call Me Maybe – Carly Rae Jepsen
5. Brown Eyed Girl – Van Morrison
6. Paradise – Coldplay
7. Love Story – Taylor Swift
8. Better Together – Jack Johnson
9. We Found Love – Rihanna
10. Party in the U.S.A. – Miley Cyrus

Top 5 Do NOT Play Songs

1. Chicken Dance
2. Electric Slide
3. Macarena
4. YMCA
5. Genres such as Rap/Hip Hop and Country

Top 3 Alternative Wedding Entertainment Choices

1. Belly Dancer
2. Elvis Impersonator
3. Caricature Artist

What do you think? Are your favorite wedding songs listed?

How to Set a Wedding No-play List

At many weddings, the main focus for the bride and groom is to figure out what songs they want played during their big day. One thing that they don’t give much thought to is a “no-play” list. This is just as important for your event.

This doesn't have to be an exhaustive list of songs, of course. It can be specific genres or artists that you don’t want played. Whether it’s because you don’t like the music, or you just don’t think it’s in keeping with your wedding’s theme, it’s a good guide to give your wedding entertainment.

When we play at a wedding or other event, we often get requests from the guests during the night. In most cases, we’ll try to oblige. If you don’t want this, it’s best to let us know ahead of time. We’re used to handling requests, and can also handle refusing them if we need to.

Whatever your music choice, we’d love to work with you to provide the perfect soundtrack for your big day.

Jason at the historic 12.12.12 concert for sandy relief

I was so fortunate to have been a part of this amazing event...the concert of the century. All while contributing to an incredible cause, the Robin Hood foundation for the Sandy Relief Fund. Music is my life and tonight i witnessed "the greats", who continually inspire me to put on better shows, performances, and events. Excel Entertainment...the idea that no idea is too big, picking up inspiration where ever we go.
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